Posts Tagged ‘fear’

The right amount of worry

Monday, March 12th, 2012
War!  Famine!  Insane politics!  The world’s falling apart!Yes, I have days like this too.  It’s just amazing how many things there are to worry about these days.  And the news is so instantaneous, so global, that any problem anywhere can instantly contribute to my stress level. (more…)

A little experiment

Monday, November 14th, 2011

The Career You’ll Love

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A little experiment

Two weeks ago, I offered each of you a challenge:

I have a request for each of you receiving this newsletter today:  Please tell me one thing that gives you inspiration.  I’ll pull those together and share them with the rest of the group in the next newsletter two weeks from now.

What a wonderful response!  Within a couple of days, I had a number of powerful testimonies in my inbox.  Here’s the first:

Thanks for all your emails which I love reading and which inspire me. Sorry if that sounds silly, but yes, you do inspire me. I suppose the other thing that regularly inspires me is learning how to do something new, or learning how something works.

Starting out my career, I was all about figuring things out.  You might not know this, but I now have a business objective to be constantly learning and growing.  I run my own business, so I get to do strange things like that!

The second and third popped in a little later:

I get inspiration from knowing that the work I do brings value to my organization, our clients and to me personally.

and

Having someone recognize my contributions inspires me!

How fantastic is that?  I love it when people figure out that the value of their work is measured by how it helps others.  But let’s not forget that each of us has an inherent worth as well, something that can’t be measured by what you DO – just by who you ARE.

The next message came from a person who has had a lot of personal turmoil – huge, life-challenging issues.  Yet her faith and philosophy gives her strength: “There are lots of things to be grateful for in the past and the present.”  She offers some valuable advice for all of us:

At the end of the day we all have a limited period of time on the planet, let’s get on and use our lives effectively. That includes the job we do. Let’s not waste precious time. You may be familiar with the quote from St Paul about throwing off everything that slows you down and running the race you have been given – well that’s where I am now and I’m also thinking about the crowd of witnesses who watch from the stands and cheer us on. Let’s get running!!

This has meant a great deal to me, and I offer it as powerful advice for all of us.

Finally, I got a Facebook post from my daughter:

You inspire me, Dad, by how hard you work and everything you do.

That just blows me away – it’s hard to find the words.


Now, why did I do this?  Honestly, part of it was a need to get some feedback from the readers of this newsletter, to get a sense of whether people are getting value from this after 18 months.

But more important, this shows us the value of giving something a try.  I’ve often used the word “experiment” for this, because it gives you the freedom to accept the outcome.  Whether it fails, succeeds, or goes off in some unexpected direction, you’re always learning and growing.

Thank you all, for helping me with this little experiment!

 

Carl Dierschow is a Certified Small Fish Business Coach and author of the career management guide, Mondays Stink! 23 Secrets to Rediscover Delight and Fulfillment in Your Work. He is a career coach for those going through interesting transitions, and works with small business owners who need to create breakthroughs in achieving their business goals. Find out more at www.Dierschow.com and www.SmallFish.us.

If you are interested in individual career coaching, group coaching, or other resources which might help you with difficult choices, please contact Carl at carl@dierschow.com.

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Mentally disconnected!

Monday, October 31st, 2011

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Sponsored by Carl Dierschow’s career blog at www.Dierschow.com

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Mentally disconnected

Right now, I’m seeing a big gap in the employment marketplace – but probably not what you think.  I’m seeing a rapidly growing number of advertised jobs (in October?  Go figure!) with a huge number of people still out of work.

Here’s the actual gap:  Many, many people aren’t actually looking for work – at least not as diligently as they once were.

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Facing the scary truth

Saturday, October 29th, 2011

This is the time of year that we celebrate the mysterious and spooky.  But that’s different than what is truly scary.

What would happen if you got in an accident and were in the hospital for six months?

Read more on my Workbloom blog»

Don’t beat yourself up

Saturday, October 22nd, 2011

Man, I sure blew that.  I had that discussion with my boss, and it sure feels like I gave her a bad impression.  Now she’ll think I’m an idiot.

OK, time to calm down a bit.

Read more on my Workbloom blog»

Pick the right battles

Friday, October 7th, 2011

Your spouse just called and told you that the weekend is now all booked up.  You were hoping to have the chance to get some fun stuff done around the house, and now your hopes have been dashed.  And you’re going to have to disappoint your friend you were going to meet up with.

Read more on my Workbloom blog»

Making the commitment

Monday, October 3rd, 2011

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Making the commitment

I was speaking with a friend recently who is wanting to build a group around a particular topic of interest.  It’s been difficult to get it launched, to get a wide range of people excited to join him.

His goal is to get this group running by the end of October.  To himself, he’s been thinking about it as “I want to have this group running by the end of the month.”  To others who might be candidates to join the group, it’s been a bit like “I would like you to join this new group, I want to have our first meeting by the end of the month.”

That might be one of the problems with getting people to join.

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Why you should launch out on your own

Friday, September 23rd, 2011

Oh, the glory!  Start your own company and achieve great fame and fortune!

OK, maybe not.   Run your own business and destroy your life savings.

How do you decide?

Read more on my Workbloom blog»

Dealing with the fears

Tuesday, September 20th, 2011

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Welcome to my career tips newsletter! I encourage you to pass this to anyone who might have an interest in revitalizing their career – instructions for subscribing are at the bottom.

Dealing with the fears

Making career decisions is scary!  You’re dealing with life-changing decisions, impacts on your family, people who can affect your life direction in deep ways, ….

Calm down for a moment.

It’s OK to be stressed, that’s understandable.  (more…)

What fear is in your way?

Monday, August 22nd, 2011

The Career You’ll Love

Sponsored by Carl Dierschow’s career blog at www.Dierschow.com

Welcome to my career tips newsletter! I encourage you to pass this to anyone who might have an interest in revitalizing their career – instructions for subscribing are at the bottom.

What fear is in your way?

You’ve been wanting to advance your career, but it seems that you’re sabotaging yourself at every turn.  You were going to have that important discussion with your boss, and then wimped out.  “Too busy,” you told yourself, or “not a convenient time.”

We all struggle with this.

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