{"id":627,"date":"2010-02-05T10:50:33","date_gmt":"2010-02-05T17:50:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/?p=627"},"modified":"2010-02-05T10:50:33","modified_gmt":"2010-02-05T17:50:33","slug":"why-do-people-give","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/general\/why-do-people-give","title":{"rendered":"Why do people give?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Peter Bregman, in the Harvard Business Review, wrote an interesting article this week about <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.hbr.org\/bregman\/2010\/02\/a-story-about-motivation.html\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"broken_link\">what motivates people to help<\/a>.\u00a0 If you haven&#8217;t seen it yet, follow that link and have a look.\u00a0 Peter raises an interesting question about why people are motivated to give to others, to help.<\/p>\n<p>In general, people like to be helpful.\u00a0 I suppose part of it is an expectation of getting something in return, but that&#8217;s not the core.<\/p>\n<p>The fact is, you get a rush just from <em>knowing you&#8217;ve done good<\/em>.\u00a0 It actually physically <em>feels good to you<\/em>, and in many cases that may be enough reward in itself.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, we get rather cynical about all this.\u00a0 Many charitable organizations prey on our need to be loved and to feel like we&#8217;re making a difference.\u00a0 After a while we get the sense that maybe we&#8217;re not actually making the difference that we&#8217;d hoped, and that some of the unscrupulous types might be taking advantage of us.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why Peter&#8217;s example is so powerful.\u00a0 It&#8217;s about making a difference to someone here and now, in a way that makes a difference that you can actually see.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what we learn about giving:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Let people see the difference they&#8217;re making, in as immediate a way as possible, and in <em>the way that person values<\/em>.<\/li>\n<li>Entering payment into the equation introduces a whole different dynamic &#8211; it becomes about the money rather than about the value delivered.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t be afraid to ask for help.\u00a0 People like helping.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As I said before, <a href=\"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/career\/giving-help-freely\" target=\"_blank\">the act of giving has great value<\/a>.\u00a0 Remember that in your own life, and those of people who you work with.<\/p>\n<p><input id=\"gwProxy\" type=\"hidden\" \/><input id=\"jsProxy\" onclick=\"jsCall();\" type=\"hidden\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Peter Bregman, in the Harvard Business Review, wrote an interesting article this week about what motivates people to help.\u00a0 If you haven&#8217;t seen it yet, follow that link and have <a href=\"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/general\/why-do-people-give\" class=\"more-link\">[&hellip;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[25,15,32,18,39],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-carl","4":"post-627","6":"format-standard","7":"category-general","8":"post_tag-attraction","9":"post_tag-career-coaching","10":"post_tag-coaching-principles","11":"post_tag-relationships","12":"post_tag-values"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/627","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=627"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/627\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":629,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/627\/revisions\/629"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=627"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=627"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=627"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}