{"id":1654,"date":"2014-06-09T08:01:42","date_gmt":"2014-06-09T15:01:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/?p=1654"},"modified":"2014-06-09T08:01:42","modified_gmt":"2014-06-09T15:01:42","slug":"as-busy-as-you-choose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/career\/as-busy-as-you-choose","title":{"rendered":"As busy as you choose"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1655\" src=\"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Crazy-busy-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Crazy busy\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/>Everyone claims that they&#8217;re busy, and now we&#8217;re in search of even stronger superlatives.\u00a0 &#8220;Crazy busy!&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;Going absolutely nuts!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But of course, you know the truth.\u00a0 We all have the exact same 168 hours per week, as it&#8217;s been since the dawn of humanity.\u00a0 So what&#8217;s changed?<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve dramatically increased the number of distractions.<\/p>\n<p>So how do you deal with this?\u00a0 <!--more-->First, by realizing that most of those distractions are entirely optional.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re shuttling your kids around between sports and music and events, it&#8217;s because you decided to sign them up for that.\u00a0 Yes, you didn&#8217;t realize at the time what you were getting yourself in for, but it&#8217;s a decision you made.<\/p>\n<p>Your job is seemingly coming at you 24&#215;7.\u00a0 After dinner, you&#8217;re back into it again, and even the weekends seem to be constantly interrupted.\u00a0 The truth?\u00a0 This is the employer and career that you opted for.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, that&#8217;s uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Are you feeling locked in to your job because you need that income to support your lifestyle?\u00a0 Admit it &#8211; we all do this.\u00a0 The truth is that it&#8217;s a lifestyle that you&#8217;ve chosen to adopt, significantly above the huge part of the human population which lives on a few dollars a day.<\/p>\n<p>Now it&#8217;s REALLY uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>The great thing is that you&#8217;ve been given 168 hours a week, a beautiful 1,440 minutes every day.\u00a0 You&#8217;re as rich as Bill Gates for the time you have.<\/p>\n<p>If you like feeling busy, juggling lots of balls, then go for it.\u00a0 There&#8217;s plenty of opportunity.\u00a0 If you want to have a little time during the week when you&#8217;re not feeling so frantic, that&#8217;s a great choice too.<\/p>\n<p>I started a little experiment a couple of weeks ago, when I noticed that my response to &#8220;How&#8217;s it going?&#8221; generally revolved around my level of busy-ness.\u00a0 I decided to focus my answer on something which was more positive and optimistic:\u00a0 A great person I spoke with recently, a neat project I&#8217;m working on, or even a simple observation about the great day.<\/p>\n<p>It turned out to be harder than I expected; apparently this habit is more ingrained than I had thought.\u00a0 But I&#8217;ll continue to work at it.<\/p>\n<p>How&#8217;s my day today?\u00a0 Well, I&#8217;m excited to be at a beautiful new Monday morning, giving a presentation tomorrow night and facilitating a cool discussion on Thursday night.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m trying to keep my balance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Everyone claims that they&#8217;re busy, and now we&#8217;re in search of even stronger superlatives.\u00a0 &#8220;Crazy busy!&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;Going absolutely nuts!&#8221; But of course, you know the truth.\u00a0 We all have the <a href=\"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/career\/as-busy-as-you-choose\" class=\"more-link\">[&hellip;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[49,15,12,39],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-carl","4":"has-more-link","5":"post-1654","7":"format-standard","8":"category-career","9":"post_tag-balance","10":"post_tag-career-coaching","11":"post_tag-relaxation","12":"post_tag-values"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1654","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1654"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1654\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1656,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1654\/revisions\/1656"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1654"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1654"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1654"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}