{"id":147,"date":"2009-04-10T15:06:29","date_gmt":"2009-04-10T07:06:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.hp.com\/hpcoach\/2009\/04\/09\/create-some-space\/"},"modified":"2009-05-26T07:54:03","modified_gmt":"2009-05-25T23:54:03","slug":"create-some-space","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/career\/create-some-space","title":{"rendered":"Create some space"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m extremely gratified by the response to last week&#8217;s post, but this time I have something a little tougher to talk about. Which is this:<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you life is absolutely filled up, you don&#8217;t have room to jump on the opportunities when they pop up.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!--more-->It&#8217;s actually not a hard concept &#8211; that you have to have some &#8220;down time&#8221; in which to rejuvenate and look at things which are a bit beyond your current focus. From that broadening of view &#8211; the mental equivalent of the physical exercise I suggested last week &#8211; comes the ability to see that there are opportunities out there.<\/p>\n<p>The reason why this is difficult is that I know there are a lot of people right now who are totally consumed by work, 200% &#8220;heads down&#8221; in what they&#8217;re doing. And that&#8217;s fantastic &#8211; I love those times where I&#8217;m so engrossed in the work that it&#8217;s giving me a lot of energy and I&#8217;m getting my best productivity.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is that it&#8217;s not sustainable, mentally or physically. Everybody has their own limits, but our bodies and minds demand some kind of relief. I get worried when I talk to so many people who see just endless work, day after week after month after year, with scarcely time to wolf down lunch.<\/p>\n<p>The fact that you&#8217;re reading this suggests that you have the ability to look up from your job occasionally. At least, I certainly hope reading this isn&#8217;t your job!<\/p>\n<p>So how can we help others to have a little mental break? Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;m doing:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Only take things as seriously as they really warrant. Very few things are actually life-and-death decisions.<\/li>\n<li>Inject a little humor, as appropriate.<\/li>\n<li>Talk about things other than work. Not so much as to waste a lot of time, but enough to remind us all that there&#8217;s a Real World\u2122 out there.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t escalate discussions where people are bemoaning how bad things are right now. It&#8217;s OK to be worried and work on fixing it, but we don&#8217;t have to get so depressed that we lose all inspiration.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What are you doing to help people around you maintain a little sanity and perspective?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m extremely gratified by the response to last week&#8217;s post, but this time I have something a little tougher to talk about. Which is this: If you life is absolutely <a href=\"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/career\/create-some-space\" class=\"more-link\">[&hellip;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[6,12,13],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-carl","4":"has-more-link","5":"post-147","7":"format-standard","8":"category-career","9":"post_tag-coaching","10":"post_tag-relaxation","11":"post_tag-stress"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/147","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=147"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/147\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":295,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/147\/revisions\/295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=147"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=147"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dierschow.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=147"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}