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		<title>Listen to what you&#8217;re saying</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2010 00:35:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m having a discussion with someone, and they just don’t seem to get it. Everything is so clear in my mind, so obviously they’re not as smart as me – otherwise they’d know what I’m saying. There’s many a slip ‘twixt the mind and the mouth. The problem is that communicating with other people is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’m having a discussion with someone, and they just don’t seem to get it.  Everything is so clear in my mind, so obviously they’re not as smart as me –  otherwise they’d know what I’m saying.</p>
<p>There’s many a slip ‘twixt the mind and the mouth.</p>
<p>The problem is that communicating with other people is a very messy and  imperfect activity.</p>
<p><a href="http://workbloom.com/blog/miscellaneous/listen-to-what-youre-saying/" target="_blank">Read more on my Workbloom blog»</a></p>
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		<title>The career you’ll love newsletter – 23 August 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 21:27:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Career You&#8217;ll Love Sponsored by Carl Dierschow&#8217;s career blog at www.Dierschow.com Welcome to my career tips newsletter! I encourage you to pass this to anyone who might have an interest in revitalizing their career &#8211; instructions for subscribing are at the bottom. Where do you find Influencers? Whether you&#8217;re looking for a job, or [...]]]></description>
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<h2>The Career You&#8217;ll Love</h2>
<p>Sponsored by Carl Dierschow&#8217;s career blog at 		<a href="http://www.dierschow.com/">www.Dierschow.com</a></td>
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<td colspan="2">Welcome to my career tips newsletter!  I encourage you to pass this to anyone  		who might have an interest in revitalizing their career &#8211; instructions  		for subscribing are at the bottom.</td>
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<h2>Where do you find Influencers?</h2>
<p>Whether you&#8217;re looking for a job, or to advance your career, one of  		the key needs is to find the decision makers who could help you achieve  		your goals.  These are often highly placed managers who are given formal  		authority by the organization.</p>
<p>They&#8217;re pretty easy to find, but often hard to connect with. That&#8217;s  		where the Influencers come in.  <span id="more-859"></span>In many ways, these people are perhaps  		even more important, because:</p>
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<li>They usually influence multiple decision makers.</li>
<li>They are expected to make value judgments.</li>
<li>They&#8217;re often more accessible.</li>
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<p>Decision makers will use their trusted advisors to bounce ideas off,  		to get more honest feedback, and to discover something closer to the  		“real story” about important issues.  When they are working on solving a  		problem, they&#8217;ll look to a small circle of friends and colleagues who  		might have ideas and wisdom.</p>
<p>These advisors, for you, are the Influencers.  When you are perceived  		as valuable by the Influencers, they are more likely to recommend you  		positively to those key decision makers.</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s the challenge:  They&#8217;re hard to find.</p>
<p>In theory, the staff that works directly for a manager would be the  		best advisors.  The problem they have, though, is that they&#8217;re biased by  		the fact that the manager has strong impact on their personal career and  		job role, and they can often be too “close” to a particular issue to see  		the big picture.  Paradoxically, the manager may see them as less  		trustable than someone else who is less visible, even outside their  		particular organization.</p>
<p>Influencers can often be found:</p>
<ul>
<li>In a planning, organizing, or strategy role</li>
<li>In a partner organization that has an informal but important  			relationship with the decision maker</li>
<li>In semi-professional relationships outside the workplace</li>
</ul>
<p>Ideally, you would have access to find out where the decision maker  		is getting information and support:</p>
<ul>
<li>Who does she talk to right before or after group meetings? Who  			does he have lunch or coffee with?</li>
<li>What semi-professional organizations is she connected with?</li>
<li>Who does he connect with during more informal times, like at the  			beginning or end of the day?</li>
</ul>
<p>Admittedly, it might be a bit creepy to watch someone that closely &#8211;  		not a good move for your career.  So the challenge is to put  		yourself in situations where you can increase contact with people who  		you suspect might be Influencers, and get a sense of how broad their  		impact might be.  And remember, you&#8217;ll have to give value in return  		in order to cultivate a healthy relationship.</td>
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<h2>An important resource</h2>
<p>I&#8217;ve been using 		<a href="http://www.google.com/alerts" target="_blank">Google Alerts</a> for several years now, and it sure saves me a lot of time.  You  		take any Google search that you&#8217;ve found to be valuable, and can set it  		up to repeat on a periodic basis and e-mail you the results.  I&#8217;ve  		found it valuable for monitoring competitors, industry trends, and even  		what other people are saying about me.</p>
<p>Since I have a unique name, when I type &#8220;carl dierschow&#8221; and &#8220;dierschow  		carl&#8221; into Google, I get a pretty complete listing of all references to  		my name.  But more important, I&#8217;d like to know when something new  		crops up &#8211; a review of my book, a pointer to my blog, whatever.  So  		I set up a Google Alert to send me a message whenever something crops  		up, and then I have a chance to see if it&#8217;s something I&#8217;m interested in.   		I never have to go out looking, instead it comes to me.</p>
<p>Is there something you&#8217;re interested in monitoring on the web?   		This is a must-have tool.</td>
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<td colspan="2">Carl Dierschow is a Certified Leadership Coach and  		author of the career management guide, <em>Mondays Stink! 23 Secrets to  		Rediscover Delight and Fulfillment in Your Work</em>. He is a career  		coach for those going through interesting transitions, and works with  		leaders who are creating amazing teams. Find out more at 		<a href="../../">www.Dierschow.com</a> and 		<a href="http://www.possibilitiespartnership.com/">www.PossibilitiesPartnership.com</a>.</p>
<p>If you are interested in individual career coaching, group coaching,  		or other resources which might help you with difficult choices, please  		contact Carl at <a href="mailto:carl@dierschow.com">carl@dierschow.com</a>.</p>
<p>Connect with Carl on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/carl.dierschow"> Facebook</a> and <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/dierschow">LinkedIn</a> to get timely updates and connections to a broader range of  		professionals.</td>
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		<title>Make a difference in your world</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 20:59:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all have our famous heroes that serve as models of what we dream of becoming. That’s all well and good, but it can tend to make us into passive observers, rather than active contributors. I might hold up Nelson Mandela as a personal role model, but I don’t really have the opportunity to make [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all have our famous heroes that serve as models of what we dream of  becoming. That’s all well and good, but it can tend to make us into passive  observers, rather than active contributors.</p>
<p>I might hold up Nelson Mandela as a personal role model, but I don’t really  have the opportunity to make the kind of contribution to the world that he has.  My situation is much more modest.</p>
<p><a href="http://workbloom.com/blog/miscellaneous/make-a-difference-in-your-world/" target="_blank">Read more on my Workbloom blog»</a></p>
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		<title>The career you’ll love newsletter – 9 August 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 19:59:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Career You&#8217;ll Love Sponsored by Carl Dierschow&#8217;s career blog at www.Dierschow.com Welcome to my new career tips newsletter! I encourage you to pass this to anyone who might have an interest in revitalizing their career &#8211; instructions for subscribing are at the bottom. Your choices when a company is shaken As many of you [...]]]></description>
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<p>Sponsored by Carl Dierschow&#8217;s career blog at 		<a href="http://www.dierschow.com/">www.Dierschow.com</a></td>
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<td colspan="2">Welcome to my new career tips newsletter!  I encourage you to pass this to anyone  		who might have an interest in revitalizing their career &#8211; instructions  		for subscribing are at the bottom.</td>
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<h2>Your choices when a company is shaken</h2>
<p><img src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Hurd.jpg" alt="Mark Hurd" width="200" height="132" align="right" />As  		many of you know, I had a long career with Hewlett-Packard.  On  		Friday, I was surprised to hear that the CEO resigned amidst murky  		circumstances.  Perhaps we&#8217;re hearing the real story, perhaps we  		aren&#8217;t, but it doesn&#8217;t really matter that much.  HP is starting  		another change of leadership.</p>
<p>As an employee, I lived through CEO changeovers three times before, and  		I realize that there are some important choices that you need to make &#8211;  		as an employee, as a customer, or as a shareholder.  But they&#8217;re  		not what you might think.</p>
<p><span id="more-844"></span>Recognize that a company of this size ($115B in revenue, 300,000  		employees) never changes rapidly.  The company for the next year  		will pretty much continue to do what it planned.  Product line  		changes will continue, hiring or firing plans will continue, and the  		financial profile of the company will look the same as it would have  		without this event.</p>
<p>Yes, HP stock took a dive Friday and is only gradually recovering.   		The press is having a field day with the news, jockeying to get readers  		by uncovering (or perhaps trying to create) a compelling story.   		This is what they do, in an attempt to capture eyeballs for their  		advertisers.</p>
<p>As an observer of this event, you have some choices to make.  The  		first is what rumors and speculation you choose to listen to, and  		propagate to others around you.  You can have a surprisingly large  		effect just by the conversations you have with your colleagues and  		friends, especially if they might view you as someone with an  		interesting opinion or some kind of inside track.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important for how you help others feel, as well as yourself.   		Do you want to spend your day frustrated, gloating, confused, or  		demotivated?  Simply listen to the rumors that support those points  		of view &#8211; there will be many &#8211; and repeat them to others.  For some  		reason people love to get caught up in emotional drama, so you&#8217;ll find  		ready ears.</p>
<p>Another big choice, one which may take many months to develop, will be  		how this changes your views of what the company stands for.  Will  		you trust future decisions more or less than the past?  Will this  		event, and the subsequent replacement of the CEO and others, make it  		more or less likely that you would want to be an employee or customer?   		Don&#8217;t base your shift just on the initial announcement; instead, monitor  		how the company goes through the coming months of uncertainty and key  		decisions.</p>
<p>Finally, this particular event, like others which touch your life, might  		propel you to look at larger decisions in your life.  Perhaps this  		could end up changing how you look at your investment philosophy, or the  		companies from which you purchase products.  It might get you  		thinking about career choices, and whether you&#8217;re more or less likely to  		want to work for a large company in the future.</p>
<p>These are the key choices which may be useful for you.  But it&#8217;s  		not going to be anything that makes the popular press.  This is  		internal work.</td>
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<h2>An important resource</h2>
<p>I&#8217;ve been reading a great book from Johnna Bavoso entitled 		<a href="http://fromlaidofftoliving.com/" target="_blank">From Laid Off  		to Living</a>.  It&#8217;s primarily focused on helping people who have  		been laid off and want help navigating the tough emotions which result.   		Step by step, she leads you through the thought process, ending up with  		a revitalized focus and energy which will help you in your career and  		life.</p>
<p>Johnna is local here in Fort Collins, so I had the good fortune of  		meeting her in person.  She&#8217;s also giving workshops on this topic  		through the local community workforce center, if you happen to be in the  		region.</td>
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<td colspan="2">Carl Dierschow is a Certified Leadership Coach and  		author of the career management guide, <em>Mondays Stink! 23 Secrets to  		Rediscover Delight and Fulfillment in Your Work</em>. He is a career  		coach for those going through interesting transitions, and works with  		leaders who are creating amazing teams. Find out more at 		<a href="../../">www.Dierschow.com</a> and 		<a href="http://www.possibilitiespartnership.com/">www.PossibilitiesPartnership.com</a>.</p>
<p>If you are interested in individual career coaching, group coaching,  		or other resources which might help you with difficult choices, please  		contact Carl at <a href="mailto:carl@dierschow.com">carl@dierschow.com</a>.</p>
<p>Connect with Carl on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/carl.dierschow"> Facebook</a> and <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/dierschow">LinkedIn</a> to get timely updates and connections to a broader range of  		professionals.</td>
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		<title>Building up trust</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 20:43:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was deeply affected many years ago by a workshop of Stephen R. Covey, when he explained that trust can be thought of as a bank account. Here’s the concept: You build up trust by your reliable and generous actions, those are the “deposits.” You lose trust when you make a mistake and damage someone, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was deeply affected many years ago by a workshop of Stephen R. Covey, when he explained that trust can be thought of as a bank account. Here’s the concept:</p>
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<li>You build up trust by your reliable and generous actions, those are the “deposits.”</li>
<li>You lose trust when you make a mistake and damage someone, those are the “withdrawals.” It’s much easier to make a withdrawal than a deposit.</li>
<li> When you damage someone more than you’ve benefited them, you’ve exhausted your bank account. They won’t want to trust you anymore, and it’s extremely hard to dig yourself out of that hole.</li>
<li>Like bank accounts, deep trust is developed over the course of many years. It’s impossible to create deep trust in a short time.</li>
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<p>This is a powerful idea, and explains a lot about how people work.</p>
<p><a href="http://workbloom.com/blog/miscellaneous/building-up-trust/" target="_blank">Read more on my Workbloom blog»</a></p>
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		<title>The career you&#8217;ll love newsletter &#8211; 26 July 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 20:15:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Career You&#8217;ll Love Sponsored by Carl Dierschow&#8217;s career blog at www.Dierschow.com Welcome to my new career tips newsletter! I encourage you to pass this to anyone who might have an interest in revitalizing their career &#8211; instructions for subscribing are at the bottom. What exactly is trust? I think the universe is telling me [...]]]></description>
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<h2>The Career You&#8217;ll Love</h2>
<p>Sponsored by Carl Dierschow&#8217;s career blog at 		<a href="http://www.dierschow.com/">www.Dierschow.com</a></td>
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<td colspan="2">Welcome to my new career tips newsletter!  I encourage you to pass this to anyone  		who might have an interest in revitalizing their career &#8211; instructions  		for subscribing are at the bottom.</td>
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<h2>What exactly is trust?</h2>
<p><img src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Trust.jpg" alt="In God We Trust" width="180" height="120" align="right" />I  		think the universe is telling me something today.  A couple of days  		ago I submitted a blog post regarding building trust &#8211; that will be  		published on the 		<a href="http://www.workbloom.com/blog/" target="_blank">Workbloom blog</a> in the next few days.</p>
<p>This morning, I had a chance to hear a presentation by 		<a href="http://www.peaksol.com/" target="_blank">Richard Fagerlin</a> on this subject, which I found quite thought-provoking.  Here are  		some great ideas.</p>
<p><span id="more-827"></span>Our paradigm of trust, historically, has been that it&#8217;s something you  		need to spend a lifetime earning from others.  To be crass:</p>
<ul>
<li>You are put in a situation of being tested</li>
<li>You perform some action in response</li>
<li>Someone else judges whether your action was &#8220;trustworthy&#8221; or not</li>
<li>If it was, then they now award you with this thing called  			&#8220;trust&#8221;</li>
</ul>
<p>That&#8217;s fine, certainly, but you might notice something:  You&#8217;ve  		given up most of your control.  And if, for whatever reason,  		another doesn&#8217;t grace you with this intangible &#8220;trust,&#8221; then there&#8217;s not  		much you can do except to try to pass the next test.</p>
<p>Instead, let&#8217;s think about the aspects of trust which are more about 		who you are than what  		you do.  The core elements are:</p>
<ul>
<li>Integrity</li>
<li>Competence</li>
<li>Compassion</li>
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<p>To the degree that you have all three of these, then you&#8217;ve created  		the elements which will not only encourage others to trust you, but &#8211;  		more importantly &#8211; which will put you into a state of trust with those  		around you.</p>
<p>Trust isn&#8217;t a one-sided judgment.  It&#8217;s a two-sided  		relationship.  And it&#8217;s really just a foundation upon which the  		activities of the relationship can take place.</p>
<p>Let me describe these three elements, then:</p>
<p><strong>Integrity</strong>: Being aware of, driven by,  		and consistent with a set of values, and displaying that consistency in  		different situations.</p>
<p><strong>Competence</strong>: Being good at what you do  		- having skills, knowledge, and abilities which are relevant and valued.</p>
<p><strong>Compassion</strong>: Being able to connect  		with others &#8211; not only empathy, but also to identify with their values  		even when they&#8217;re different than your own.</p>
<p>When you have these three qualities, you&#8217;ll be able to operate from a  		solid foundation of trusting others, to build the healthy trusting  		relationships we all strive for.</p>
<p>Just a final word:  Don&#8217;t assume that trust means only trusting  		blindly.  When I trust another, it means I have a basis upon which  		to predict their behavior &#8211; but that might still not be what I would  		choose.  So healthy trust also depends on communication and  		validating.  Trust but verify.</td>
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<h2>An important resource</h2>
<p>I&#8217;ve been reading a great book recently, 		<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Transitions-Making-Changes-Revised-Anniversary/dp/073820904X" target="_blank"> Transitions: Making Sense of Life&#8217;s Changes</a>, by William Bridges.   		I found it quite useful for people who are struggling with a sense of  		travelling through life stages, and the transitions that are required  		for each.  It&#8217;ll help you to understand the bigger picture of your  		life, and quite possibly help your kids, partner, and parents.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s an easy read, and extraordinarily powerful.</td>
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<td colspan="2">Carl Dierschow is a Certified Leadership Coach and  		author of the career management guide, <em>Mondays Stink! 23 Secrets to  		Rediscover Delight and Fulfillment in Your Work</em>. He is a career  		coach for those going through interesting transitions, and works with  		leaders who are creating amazing teams. Find out more at 		<a href="../../">www.Dierschow.com</a> and 		<a href="http://www.possibilitiespartnership.com/">www.PossibilitiesPartnership.com</a>.</p>
<p>If you are interested in individual career coaching, group coaching,  		or other resources which might help you with difficult choices, please  		contact Carl at <a href="mailto:carl@dierschow.com">carl@dierschow.com</a>.</p>
<p>Connect with Carl on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/carl.dierschow"> Facebook</a> and <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/dierschow">LinkedIn</a> to get timely updates and connections to a broader range of  		professionals.</td>
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		<title>Helping to define your next job</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 23:25:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Does your next job exist yet? Maybe.</p>
<p>But many times jobs are created, or tweaked, based upon specific needs at a  certain time, even connected with the talents of certain individuals.</p>
<p>This is one of the reasons why some jobs are filled before they’re even  posted: The hiring manager was taking advantage of a great match of someone’s  existing skills to address a specific pressing need.</p>
<p><a href="http://workbloom.com/blog/career-advancement/helping-to-define-your-next-job/" target="_blank">Read more on my Workbloom blog»</a></p>
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		<title>Understanding dumb decisions</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 17:26:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the most frustrating things about working for other people is figuring out why they do such dumb things. Incomprehensible decisions seem designed to make your life difficult and stop useful progress. It might be something as large as relocation, reorganization, or laying people off – or as minor as requiring useless codes on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most frustrating things about working for other people is figuring  out why they do such dumb things. Incomprehensible decisions seem designed to  make your life difficult and stop useful progress.</p>
<p>It might be something as large as relocation, reorganization, or laying  people off – or as minor as requiring useless codes on your TPS reports.</p>
<p><a href="http://workbloom.com/blog/miscellaneous/understanding-dumb-decisions/" target="_blank">Read more on my Workbloom blog»</a></p>
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		<title>People can tell if you&#8217;re engaged in your work</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 23:21:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It seems that recently many people, perhaps most, have struggled to be inspired by their work. With such an uncertain economy, 24/7 accessibility, fear of job loss, and lack of pay increases, we’ve created work environments where many focus more on keeping up with work than on making a great contribution. There’s some really practical [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems that recently many people, perhaps most, have struggled to be  inspired by their work. With such an uncertain economy, 24/7 accessibility, fear  of job loss, and lack of pay increases, we’ve created work environments where  many focus more on keeping up with work than on making a great  contribution.</p>
<p>There’s some really practical reasons why you should look to be engaged in  your work:</p>
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<li>You become more productive, thereby more valuable to your employer.</li>
<li>It helps you to be more creative and bring more energy to what you do.</li>
<li>It affects the attitudes of those you work with, helping you to have some  fun.</li>
<li>It makes you happier and more satisfied with the work you do.</li>
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<p><a href="http://workbloom.com/blog/miscellaneous/people-can-tell-if-youre-engaged-in-your-work/" target="_blank">Read more on my Workbloom blog»</a></p>
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		<title>When getting visibility is a good thing</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jun 2010 16:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The word “visibility” has gotten a bit of a bad rap inside organizations. I’ve seen it associated with concepts of playing politics, whitewashing, and generally creating a false image. If your great work speaks for itself, why worry about making yourself visible? Read the rest on my Workbloom blog»]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The word “visibility” has gotten a bit of a bad rap inside organizations.  I’ve seen it associated with concepts of playing politics, whitewashing, and  generally creating a false image.</p>
<p>If your great work speaks for itself, why worry about making yourself  visible?</p>
<p><a href="http://workbloom.com/blog/career-advancement/career-advancement-when-getting-visibility-is-a-good-thing/" target="_blank">Read the rest on my Workbloom blog»</a></p>
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